..:: words are just words right? ::..

Pernah tak hadapi situasi macam nih...

"Kau ni kenapa bangang sangat aaahh??"

"Ey, salah la macam tu... Eiii, tak reti2 ke nak buat betul-betul??"

"Kau nih memang tak guna.. memang s%^&&^!!!!!"

First of all, sowwy sebab intro nyer terkasar sket.. bunyi macam tengah marah kan?? Eh, i'm not mad okay? Bukan aku yg tgh marah nih.. aku okay, relax aje nih.. cuma nak mulakan bercerita...

Rasa2nyer mesti kita pernah alami situation macam nih kan?? Terguris tak hati kita kalau ada orang yg ckp macam tu kat kita? Lebih-lebih lagi kalau kata2 tuh terkuar dari mulut org yg kita sayang? Mesti pedih hati kita.. Emm, kalau sekali-sekala tu, maybe boleh consider kots.. tu pun kalau boleh tahan tuk bersabar.. tp kalau dah makan tahun, bertahun-tahun lamanya, boleh tak kita nak sabar?? larat ke lagi kita dikutuk dan dihina begitu sekali??

Emm, kalau lah pulak ada org yg cakap camtuh kat parents kita?? sedih tak rasanya?? mesti sedeykan?? Lebey2 lagi kalau ada org ckp camtuh kat ibu sendiri. Tak ker org tu sedar dia telah mengguriskan hati ibunya?? Walaupun dia tak berniat mcm tuh in the first place.

Orang yg tgh marah, selalunya takkan sedar apa yg dia cakap atau apa yg dia buat. Dia hanya mengikut apa yg emosi dia cakap. Ikut hati dan perasaan..

Orang yg kena marah mungkin akan membalas balik, atau mungkin akan diam.. depending on the person..

Emm, to the angry person.. he/she will say something, some words that will actually destroy the other person.. The person who gets scolded, will either discard those words from his/her mind or will absorb 'em like a sponge..

Words are just words.. but words can be mightier than the sword.. it can actually diminish a person's mind and self worth, bringing that person down to the pits of depression...

Why don't we try to control our temper? Don't be angry. Be more patient. Our words may impact others. Place ourself in their shoes...think of how they would feel when we utter such words..

p/s: Ingatlah, syurga terletak di bawah tapak kaki ibu... peringatan tuk diri sendiri juge.